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Hi, I am a man whos wife left over me having MS . A little different then your husband, I have a slight limp and poor sight in one eye is all but my ex said she felt trapped because of it also. We were married 18 years , 4 kids , plenty of money , plenty of great sex and still do on occasion with her. Her leaving in away helped me become healthier and restart my life . MS is a tough disease that messes with your head . He probably loves you very much but is maybe trying to push you away because he feels guilt or lost his identity and dosent want you to go through that. I felt that way for a couple years. Leaving him is totally understandable. Might be good for both of you. I can say I would have stayed by her side no matter what but probably would have left also. Sometimes its just not meant to be forever. I still got MS but fit as I was when I was in my 20s , date a lot, raise our youngest 2 daughters by myself , have been successful and happy. My ex has asked to come back but for me its to late for that . Your not a bad person for wanting to leave. I will say though that my EXs life hasn't been all that great since she left and has told me she regrets it . I figure we had some great years and have no regrets. You got to do what feels right. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't . Sounds like he needs a wake up call if this has been going on for years. Good luck to you! :)

September 14, 2014 - 2:35pm

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