Get out. Get out now. You can sacrifice your life and be controlled by all this nonsense about how you "can't feel this way" - extraordinary! - and how "you're a bad person" or you can ease away and find a life.
The longer you stay the worse you will feel. The longer you stay, the more ill your partner - who has done nothing wrong and is not at fault - will become, and the more drowned in his illness you will become.
My husband has a chronic illness which means that we do nothing, all day long, year after year. I'm the sole earner. He wants to do nothing - though he is physically capable - but if I manage to prise him from the bed I have to pay for everything which means that unless I go somewhere on my own we don't go far.
He's a good, loving man. And I have a life too, one that is small and miserable.
Get out now. Hater's are going to hate, and they're going to tell you that you're a piece of shit because they would like nothing more than to reclaim their life too.
Get as much support as you can for your partner in place. And then go.
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Get out. Get out now. You can sacrifice your life and be controlled by all this nonsense about how you "can't feel this way" - extraordinary! - and how "you're a bad person" or you can ease away and find a life.
The longer you stay the worse you will feel. The longer you stay, the more ill your partner - who has done nothing wrong and is not at fault - will become, and the more drowned in his illness you will become.
My husband has a chronic illness which means that we do nothing, all day long, year after year. I'm the sole earner. He wants to do nothing - though he is physically capable - but if I manage to prise him from the bed I have to pay for everything which means that unless I go somewhere on my own we don't go far.
He's a good, loving man. And I have a life too, one that is small and miserable.
Get out now. Hater's are going to hate, and they're going to tell you that you're a piece of shit because they would like nothing more than to reclaim their life too.
Get as much support as you can for your partner in place. And then go.
April 4, 2015 - 9:48amThis Comment
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