Indiana-im the one with heriditary colon cancer,im in remission,found out now i have autumne disease,living on chemo and just had a growth removed off breast.just went through genetic cancer testing,my husbandd is not helpful,i feel i burden himcause he cant live his hunting life,on top that we have a 28 year old cerbral palsy son that lives at home his our baby huey.he is mobil but requires help in every way.i cry out to god alot and look at i had a great job which dr said i cant do no more,but i beleive in the marriage vowls.but the one that walks out of the one who ends up sick for no reason of explaning as cancer.i believe god come and show his self to that person.marriage is not easy healthy but you walk hand in hand with each other one day at a time its hard.but think if it was reversed would you want walked out on cause you became ill.yea ill say my husbands a butt but ive crawled to vomit cause chemo left and never asked can i get you something.ive learned dont expect and then dont get get let down but i beleive it takes great faith and tell god we married for better or worse,i cry on these storys cause iwant to be normal how does people not want to love and help that person with sickness.well i feel its selfish of the healthy person cause i would never give up on my son.so pull your pants up deal with whats been given to you ,love unconditionally and watch god show up even if you dont beleive in god.his there and i know the people who are praying gods breaking him.life isnt always easy but how we chose to deal with whats been given to us.so if the healthy spouse leaves i pray god gets hold of them shows them life isnt always about them.ill be praying for all you guys.
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Indiana-im the one with heriditary colon cancer,im in remission,found out now i have autumne disease,living on chemo and just had a growth removed off breast.just went through genetic cancer testing,my husbandd is not helpful,i feel i burden himcause he cant live his hunting life,on top that we have a 28 year old cerbral palsy son that lives at home his our baby huey.he is mobil but requires help in every way.i cry out to god alot and look at i had a great job which dr said i cant do no more,but i beleive in the marriage vowls.but the one that walks out of the one who ends up sick for no reason of explaning as cancer.i believe god come and show his self to that person.marriage is not easy healthy but you walk hand in hand with each other one day at a time its hard.but think if it was reversed would you want walked out on cause you became ill.yea ill say my husbands a butt but ive crawled to vomit cause chemo left and never asked can i get you something.ive learned dont expect and then dont get get let down but i beleive it takes great faith and tell god we married for better or worse,i cry on these storys cause iwant to be normal how does people not want to love and help that person with sickness.well i feel its selfish of the healthy person cause i would never give up on my son.so pull your pants up deal with whats been given to you ,love unconditionally and watch god show up even if you dont beleive in god.his there and i know the people who are praying gods breaking him.life isnt always easy but how we chose to deal with whats been given to us.so if the healthy spouse leaves i pray god gets hold of them shows them life isnt always about them.ill be praying for all you guys.
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