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I'm so low, I'm so unhappy, I'm in a similar situation to others who have commented. Some of you are so strong I'm full of admiration for you, I've only been caring for my partner for four years yet feel it's been a lifetime. I gave up work to care for him full time he's controlling, verbally abusive, tells fibs and has alienated me from friends but to all who know him he's a marvellous man. He's very good at behaving when people are here, he's even got me questioning my own sanity I don't know what to do. I'm worried he will hurt my son if I leave, he's fallen out with my adult son and is already saying if I leave he will have him sorted out. Who can I talk to without them thinking what an awful person I am wanting to leave my disabled partner. He says he loves me annd promises to change but I'm terrified that this is my life until I die, but who's going to believe me,his friends think he's wonderful. So sorry to moan, please advise re moving forward xxxx