How often do you use water? Maybe you can treat this like a bit of an addiction, like when a man cannot get an erection without pornography. If you disallow yourself to orgasm using water for the moment then you may be able to retrain yourself with your boyfriend?
Maybe if you remove the only known source of complete pleasure, then it will be easier to become orgasmic with a man?
Just a thought. I have known men who have gotten rid of their pornography when too reliant upon it for arousal and they then can preform better with real women.
Also, trying too hard can be frustrating and put too much pressure on you so then you can't orgasm.
Maybe you should try loving touching with your guy and not focus on orgasm so much and see what happens?
You are young. I never even had an orgasm 'till I was about 26 so don't be so hard on yourself....relax a bit. The good thing is, you know that you are able to orgasm so I think that it's a matter of retraining a bit...LOL
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How often do you use water? Maybe you can treat this like a bit of an addiction, like when a man cannot get an erection without pornography. If you disallow yourself to orgasm using water for the moment then you may be able to retrain yourself with your boyfriend?
January 27, 2009 - 1:56pmMaybe if you remove the only known source of complete pleasure, then it will be easier to become orgasmic with a man?
Just a thought. I have known men who have gotten rid of their pornography when too reliant upon it for arousal and they then can preform better with real women.
Also, trying too hard can be frustrating and put too much pressure on you so then you can't orgasm.
Maybe you should try loving touching with your guy and not focus on orgasm so much and see what happens?
You are young. I never even had an orgasm 'till I was about 26 so don't be so hard on yourself....relax a bit. The good thing is, you know that you are able to orgasm so I think that it's a matter of retraining a bit...LOL
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