Sex is at least 90% mental. It is most likely a psychological reason you can only orgasm in that way. It could possibly be a control issue and an intimacy issue.( Not a physical intimacy, mentally and spiritually).A counselor of some type that you can trust could be of service. Just don't expect miracles in a short period of time.
It can sometimes help to concentrate on very dirty fantasy's while being stimulated. Start by yourself using anything except the shower and see if anything develops.
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Sex is at least 90% mental. It is most likely a psychological reason you can only orgasm in that way. It could possibly be a control issue and an intimacy issue.( Not a physical intimacy, mentally and spiritually).A counselor of some type that you can trust could be of service. Just don't expect miracles in a short period of time.
It can sometimes help to concentrate on very dirty fantasy's while being stimulated. Start by yourself using anything except the shower and see if anything develops.
Best of luck!
January 29, 2009 - 10:30amOlder and wiser
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