Have you ever had a gynecological exam? I am sure you have a normal vaginal opening, and was just wondering if any doctor has mentioned any medical conditions to you?
You have brought up many issues, some that seem unrelated to the original question. Let me see what I can answer for you:
1. Women's hymens do not actually "break". Have you actually looked at your vaginal opening with a mirror? If you and your husband are able to insert a finger into your vagina, you can try inserting two fingers and see how that feels. Every women's sexual experience is different, and some women experience some mild discomfort with first intercourse, regardless if their hymen is still intact.
2. Some women are not born with a hymen that covers their vagina; other women's hymens eventually cover less of the vaginal opening through daily activities as they grow and mature. An intact hymen, therefore, is not "proof" or indication of any type of sexual activity or virginity. It is impossible to look at a woman, or her vagina, and know if she is a virgin or not...that is a myth.
3. Why is your husband unable to maintain an erection? You said that you are worried that you are no longer a virgin, and since you are already married, have you two had intercourse before? You said your husband tried to have sex...is he unable to because of his loss of erection, or because you are feeling pain? His loss of erection has nothing to do with how big/small your hymen is (or isn't).
4. Masturbating with a candle may not be the best tool, as some residue may be present.
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Have you ever had a gynecological exam? I am sure you have a normal vaginal opening, and was just wondering if any doctor has mentioned any medical conditions to you?
You have brought up many issues, some that seem unrelated to the original question. Let me see what I can answer for you:
1. Women's hymens do not actually "break". Have you actually looked at your vaginal opening with a mirror? If you and your husband are able to insert a finger into your vagina, you can try inserting two fingers and see how that feels. Every women's sexual experience is different, and some women experience some mild discomfort with first intercourse, regardless if their hymen is still intact.
2. Some women are not born with a hymen that covers their vagina; other women's hymens eventually cover less of the vaginal opening through daily activities as they grow and mature. An intact hymen, therefore, is not "proof" or indication of any type of sexual activity or virginity. It is impossible to look at a woman, or her vagina, and know if she is a virgin or not...that is a myth.
3. Why is your husband unable to maintain an erection? You said that you are worried that you are no longer a virgin, and since you are already married, have you two had intercourse before? You said your husband tried to have sex...is he unable to because of his loss of erection, or because you are feeling pain? His loss of erection has nothing to do with how big/small your hymen is (or isn't).
4. Masturbating with a candle may not be the best tool, as some residue may be present.
Hope this information helps!
November 30, 2010 - 11:37amThis Comment
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