I know exactly how you feel :-/
Allison, I don't know about the previous poster, but in the roughly 10 years that I've been having orgasms I've tried plenty of times to not rush (you'd think an hour would be enough buildup), I've orgasmed without "worries, frustrations and expectations" (not every time of course, but often enough to know that that's not the cause), I've had great sex with my boyfriend, my vibrator, and my fingers and felt "writhing with passion" BEFORE climaxing but my orgasms have never really felt all that great. In fact, the only reason I do orgasm is to bring my arousal down. All I feel is a few seconds of pulsing in my vagina and then my clitoris gets very sensitive. That's it. Nothing special, no fireworks, no heavenly bliss, no feeling of free-fall. And, this is the ONLY place on the internet I've been able to find with any mention of what I feel...or rather what I DON'T feel :-(
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I know exactly how you feel :-/
November 8, 2009 - 10:00pmAllison, I don't know about the previous poster, but in the roughly 10 years that I've been having orgasms I've tried plenty of times to not rush (you'd think an hour would be enough buildup), I've orgasmed without "worries, frustrations and expectations" (not every time of course, but often enough to know that that's not the cause), I've had great sex with my boyfriend, my vibrator, and my fingers and felt "writhing with passion" BEFORE climaxing but my orgasms have never really felt all that great. In fact, the only reason I do orgasm is to bring my arousal down. All I feel is a few seconds of pulsing in my vagina and then my clitoris gets very sensitive. That's it. Nothing special, no fireworks, no heavenly bliss, no feeling of free-fall. And, this is the ONLY place on the internet I've been able to find with any mention of what I feel...or rather what I DON'T feel :-(
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