What both of you ladies are going through is perfectly normal. Not all women EVER achieve orgasms and very few see fireworks when they do. All the shaking and dramatization of an orgasm seen in pornography is not entirely real. A porn movie is meant to turn you on and let's face it-- the more these adult stars react to an orgasm or a certain "move" the more turned on the viewer gets.
The use of toys during sex or through masturbation can certainly help achieve an intense orgasm but the repeated use of a vibrator can and will make it impossible to achieve orgasm on your own.
Letting your inhibitions free and putting the thoughts of achieving orgasm aside is very hard when you're trying to achieve it. So I say-- forget about it. Give up the orgasm but have the time of your life. Have a glass or two of wine, seduce your boyfriend, roleplay...let him be the sleazy photographer and you the desperate model (You don't actually have to take pictures or you can delete them after) then tell me if the sex wasn't fantastic...with or without the shaking.
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What both of you ladies are going through is perfectly normal. Not all women EVER achieve orgasms and very few see fireworks when they do. All the shaking and dramatization of an orgasm seen in pornography is not entirely real. A porn movie is meant to turn you on and let's face it-- the more these adult stars react to an orgasm or a certain "move" the more turned on the viewer gets.
The use of toys during sex or through masturbation can certainly help achieve an intense orgasm but the repeated use of a vibrator can and will make it impossible to achieve orgasm on your own.
Letting your inhibitions free and putting the thoughts of achieving orgasm aside is very hard when you're trying to achieve it. So I say-- forget about it. Give up the orgasm but have the time of your life. Have a glass or two of wine, seduce your boyfriend, roleplay...let him be the sleazy photographer and you the desperate model (You don't actually have to take pictures or you can delete them after) then tell me if the sex wasn't fantastic...with or without the shaking.
November 9, 2009 - 6:32amThis Comment
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