We are soooo close, it is remarkable to us and to others. He adores me. When he is away from me, he calls me a few times a day. We miss each other. Maybe we are both a bit needy. He sometimes has to go on business trips and neither of us enjoys the prospect but we live with the unavoidable.
Thanks for all your suggestions. I already feel a little more at ease. I am a very controlled person and feel that maybe I need to relax a bit myself about my own feelings too.
He treats me like a princess..he really does. All these trust issues lie with me. He feels, like you, that how we treat each other is the most important thing.
Our sex life is fantastic. He wants me more now even that when we first met....and I am very attracted to him too.
He has always believed that masturbation is normal and healty. He grew up with very hippy parents who gave him so much space...so much that he had a porn habit by the age of 15 or so! He regrets that!
I probably ask too much of him; to be 100% physically and mentally faithful. I am very lucky with what I have; a man who would do anything for me and adores me. Many women will never have that.
I think I will tell him that it's me who is scared; scared of being second best, scared of not matching up, scared of being left. He will think these feelings are unfounded but it may make me feel better to be very honest about them. Do you agree?
Thanks for all the time and effort you have given to my question.
Heidi.
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We are soooo close, it is remarkable to us and to others. He adores me. When he is away from me, he calls me a few times a day. We miss each other. Maybe we are both a bit needy. He sometimes has to go on business trips and neither of us enjoys the prospect but we live with the unavoidable.
March 23, 2009 - 12:05amThanks for all your suggestions. I already feel a little more at ease. I am a very controlled person and feel that maybe I need to relax a bit myself about my own feelings too.
He treats me like a princess..he really does. All these trust issues lie with me. He feels, like you, that how we treat each other is the most important thing.
Our sex life is fantastic. He wants me more now even that when we first met....and I am very attracted to him too.
He has always believed that masturbation is normal and healty. He grew up with very hippy parents who gave him so much space...so much that he had a porn habit by the age of 15 or so! He regrets that!
I probably ask too much of him; to be 100% physically and mentally faithful. I am very lucky with what I have; a man who would do anything for me and adores me. Many women will never have that.
I think I will tell him that it's me who is scared; scared of being second best, scared of not matching up, scared of being left. He will think these feelings are unfounded but it may make me feel better to be very honest about them. Do you agree?
Thanks for all the time and effort you have given to my question.
Heidi.
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