I am in the same situation. Me and my boyfriend of 6 years have a 6 months old daughter. We had sex during pregnancy and it was good, but after she was born I dont feel like having sex. I have mostly oral sex with him now but I dont even feel turned on. I cant even turn myself on. I used to masturbate (lol) but I dont have an interest in that either. My boyfriend and I got into a big fight yesterday about sex. He says that i never want to do it anymore and he NEEDS it! I feel horrible when i say no or just go to sleep. I just want to cuddle and he wants to have sex the second i touch him, so now i dont even try to touch him :( Our daughter sleeps in her own room, i do breastfeed half of what she consumes (other half is formula) I dont feel like a different person i just dont feel pleasure, nor do i want to, its weird.How can i compromise? Is there a way to get my libido back up? a way to spice things up in the bedroom. When we have had sex, i dont feel any chemistry, its just a fuck so to say and he can see it in my expressions. I get frustrated quickly with sex. ANy advice?
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I am in the same situation. Me and my boyfriend of 6 years have a 6 months old daughter. We had sex during pregnancy and it was good, but after she was born I dont feel like having sex. I have mostly oral sex with him now but I dont even feel turned on. I cant even turn myself on. I used to masturbate (lol) but I dont have an interest in that either. My boyfriend and I got into a big fight yesterday about sex. He says that i never want to do it anymore and he NEEDS it! I feel horrible when i say no or just go to sleep. I just want to cuddle and he wants to have sex the second i touch him, so now i dont even try to touch him :( Our daughter sleeps in her own room, i do breastfeed half of what she consumes (other half is formula) I dont feel like a different person i just dont feel pleasure, nor do i want to, its weird.How can i compromise? Is there a way to get my libido back up? a way to spice things up in the bedroom. When we have had sex, i dont feel any chemistry, its just a fuck so to say and he can see it in my expressions. I get frustrated quickly with sex. ANy advice?
April 6, 2010 - 11:30amThis Comment
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