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unable to orgasm without a vibrator

By April 1, 2009 - 7:27am
 
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I am 21 years old The first time i ever orgasmed was when i was 18, with a toy. I have never been able too by intercourse before then or after. I am with the man i plan to marry and he cant make me either. am i destined to have to do this deed by myself forever? Is this normal?
I have heard that woman don't hit their sexual peek until their late 30s could that be the reason?
What causes this?
Just curious and aggrivated and a little jelous of the significant other )o: thank you for any feedback!

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I have a similar problem. I have no problem climaxing by myself through either manual stimulation or using a vibrator. But, I just can't with my husband of 15 years nor any previous boyfriends. It's causing strain in our relationship. I wish there was a way that I can climax with him but I feel hopeless.

April 18, 2010 - 10:27pm
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