Sorry that you are receiving some harsh judgement from others on this site. It is a very difficult decision to terminate a pregnancy, no doubt you did not take it lightly. There seems to be one pattern in your comments that I find troubling (for your sake). You were scared when you conceived, and you are now scared again. Having a child is an act of faith, courage and love. You get what you get. You may have a wonderful, healthy, loving child. Or you may get a child that is not fully healthy or not very happy, etc. Whatever you do, understand that you cannot have a child for "selfish" reasons. Having a child is all about giving. Giving your love, your attention, your time, your money, your energy. It is extremely demanding on a relationship and on your body. You need to move on from being scared and say "Am I ready to be a grown up and give, give, give?" If you can do that, then talk to your partner to make sure you have support in your relationship. Best of luck to you!
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Sorry that you are receiving some harsh judgement from others on this site. It is a very difficult decision to terminate a pregnancy, no doubt you did not take it lightly. There seems to be one pattern in your comments that I find troubling (for your sake). You were scared when you conceived, and you are now scared again. Having a child is an act of faith, courage and love. You get what you get. You may have a wonderful, healthy, loving child. Or you may get a child that is not fully healthy or not very happy, etc. Whatever you do, understand that you cannot have a child for "selfish" reasons. Having a child is all about giving. Giving your love, your attention, your time, your money, your energy. It is extremely demanding on a relationship and on your body. You need to move on from being scared and say "Am I ready to be a grown up and give, give, give?" If you can do that, then talk to your partner to make sure you have support in your relationship. Best of luck to you!
March 23, 2015 - 6:48amThis Comment
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