You're so funny! I love your article! It's really bizarre that this "cougar" title is being thrown around everywhere. As annoying as it is, I have to feel positively about it; it wasn't so long ago that an older woman with a younger man was not only far from being "hot" it would have seemed downright absurd. We may have strange and uncomfortable buzz words for things but the fact of the matter is, it's pretty liberating to be considered an attractive, appealing and desirable woman to men of any and all ages (within appropriate boundaries, of course).
I agree with you that if you're chemistry is bubbling there's little to no reason to stick to some arbitrary set of dating and sex rules. However, I appreciate their existence because I think women have been devastated over and over again by insensitive men who led them on to believe they wanted relationships when they only wanted casual sex. In order to protect yourself somewhat, it makes sense; but if you're not feeling particularly vulnerable or at risk in terms of wanting something he doesn't or falling in love when he won't then by all means - ride 'em, cowgirl!
Also - I love that you had this "moment" in your article about him spanking you and your not noticing the cellulite jiggle - that's the epitome of good sex and I think what a lot of men crave as well - that We LOSE OUR INSECURITIES and just enjoy, enjoy, enjoy...
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You're so funny! I love your article! It's really bizarre that this "cougar" title is being thrown around everywhere. As annoying as it is, I have to feel positively about it; it wasn't so long ago that an older woman with a younger man was not only far from being "hot" it would have seemed downright absurd. We may have strange and uncomfortable buzz words for things but the fact of the matter is, it's pretty liberating to be considered an attractive, appealing and desirable woman to men of any and all ages (within appropriate boundaries, of course).
I agree with you that if you're chemistry is bubbling there's little to no reason to stick to some arbitrary set of dating and sex rules. However, I appreciate their existence because I think women have been devastated over and over again by insensitive men who led them on to believe they wanted relationships when they only wanted casual sex. In order to protect yourself somewhat, it makes sense; but if you're not feeling particularly vulnerable or at risk in terms of wanting something he doesn't or falling in love when he won't then by all means - ride 'em, cowgirl!
Also - I love that you had this "moment" in your article about him spanking you and your not noticing the cellulite jiggle - that's the epitome of good sex and I think what a lot of men crave as well - that We LOSE OUR INSECURITIES and just enjoy, enjoy, enjoy...
Thanks for this!
April 16, 2009 - 5:00pmThis Comment
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