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After loosing my husband and became a widow. Out of being really lonesome. I met my current boyfriend he was 26 and I was 42 but then I looked 29. Anyway we have been together for nearly 9 years. We often get along, we have gone through so much together, good and bad and after HD lost his Mom, he has gone through a lot. He drifted away from us' suddenly without knowing he was seeing another woman. I was in shock heartbroken miserably stressed having anxiety attacks which I never did before. He told her all the bad stuff and left out all the good. This was just last year so he's 36 and she is sort of the same. She manipulated him about me just wanting him as my toy boy' when we not only lived together and had a true relationship. A marriage in my book!!! She made everything that was between he and I dirty as if I was taking advantage of him. He and her seemed to be all about sex. It has just killed all we had. Well ghat lasted maybe 5 months and we are back together again. But it hasn't been easy to say the least. I am still attractive and I am fun go be around, smart and loving, I would do anything for him. But I can't get passed what he did. He didn't even bother to say goodbye or to work out through our problems. Would I do it again znd fall for a younger man?. I don't think so. Maturity plays a big roll in my life now. I don't have time to waste with bullshit people. I am very active, music travel and I want a man that can be parallel to me. Don't get me wrong. I love Tom very much and will forever. Everyday is something, some days he feels good other is another story. Out sex life was good before he met this witch. After getting back together has been off and on.. he says get loves me but not all is about sex. I don't want just sex. I want intimacy love to make love.. sex you can get anywhere... I miss that connection... I feel greatly sad that he and I lost ourselves and all because of his escapades..... Don't falk for a younger man... they get tired of you and you are left picking up the pieces of your heart. It doesn't work like older men/younger women. That's a different deal....

May 12, 2017 - 5:09pm

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