I am going through a bit of the same problem. Except my boyfriend keeps telling me he doesn't want to have sex because it makes him really really tired afterwards where he just wants to sleep. And he hates that sleepyness, as do I. So I feel as with me it's more of a medical problem, but it still makes me feel insecure because I feel like he doesn't even want to make love to me. We've been fighting about it and I don't like it at all.
But anyway, I've been researching this all on the internet at it seems that the lack of sex from guys does sort of comes from the lack of mystery. And too much time together too, I feel, might be the problem. When you're with someone all of the time that sense of wanting sex attraction kind of goes. Of course they still think that you're sexy and hot, but to actually feel aroused by it might be a different thing. It's kind of like people just getting used to things. As the saying goes, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
I don't know how much time you guys spend together, but I suggest for all those women who do spend most of their time with their loving man, that you should seek some quiet or even fun time by yourself while letting your man indulge in his own time. Then when it's time to meet again, dress up super sexy, but don't tell him you want sex! I guess my guess is to just try and reenact that feeling of when you first met your lover.
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I am going through a bit of the same problem. Except my boyfriend keeps telling me he doesn't want to have sex because it makes him really really tired afterwards where he just wants to sleep. And he hates that sleepyness, as do I. So I feel as with me it's more of a medical problem, but it still makes me feel insecure because I feel like he doesn't even want to make love to me. We've been fighting about it and I don't like it at all.
But anyway, I've been researching this all on the internet at it seems that the lack of sex from guys does sort of comes from the lack of mystery. And too much time together too, I feel, might be the problem. When you're with someone all of the time that sense of wanting sex attraction kind of goes. Of course they still think that you're sexy and hot, but to actually feel aroused by it might be a different thing. It's kind of like people just getting used to things. As the saying goes, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
I don't know how much time you guys spend together, but I suggest for all those women who do spend most of their time with their loving man, that you should seek some quiet or even fun time by yourself while letting your man indulge in his own time. Then when it's time to meet again, dress up super sexy, but don't tell him you want sex! I guess my guess is to just try and reenact that feeling of when you first met your lover.
December 24, 2009 - 2:37pmThis Comment
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