So, I was the comment five years ago on April 23, 2010 and I can't tell you how absolutely pathetic I sound. It's disgusting to think I was defending my boyfriend at the time, who, needless to say, I am thankfully no longer with. He ended up cheating on me with a girl who was only about 120 lbs. while I was in the 150ish department. I WASN'T EVEN FAT and I weigh more now than I did back then by at least a little over 40 lbs but you know what? It DOESN'T EVEN MATTER. After my ex cheated on me I met a man who said he will love me, rolls and flaws and all, no matter the number on the scale. Three years later we are still going strong and I am not afraid to eat around him, try new foods and beers together, etc.. Before I was with him I was playing around with another grown little boy who I had an eating disorder for to impress him.. I was finally skinny but I wasn't happy. Undernourishment isn't a lovely thing, it eats you up because there's nothing else there. Meeting my boyfriend changed everything for me. I may have gone from a size 9 to now a size 13 but I am happier than I ever was. I tell you what ladies, if he has an issue with your size it can never work. He will find somebody that meets his standards. A man who loves you will love YOU. I know that sounds like an obvious statement but its more evident to me more than ever and the right person really does make a huge difference in a woman's life. I hope things have worked out for our original poster and she is no longer a victim to things that shouldn't even be an issue in a relationship. Stay happy, healthy, and confident ladies.
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So, I was the comment five years ago on April 23, 2010 and I can't tell you how absolutely pathetic I sound. It's disgusting to think I was defending my boyfriend at the time, who, needless to say, I am thankfully no longer with. He ended up cheating on me with a girl who was only about 120 lbs. while I was in the 150ish department. I WASN'T EVEN FAT and I weigh more now than I did back then by at least a little over 40 lbs but you know what? It DOESN'T EVEN MATTER. After my ex cheated on me I met a man who said he will love me, rolls and flaws and all, no matter the number on the scale. Three years later we are still going strong and I am not afraid to eat around him, try new foods and beers together, etc.. Before I was with him I was playing around with another grown little boy who I had an eating disorder for to impress him.. I was finally skinny but I wasn't happy. Undernourishment isn't a lovely thing, it eats you up because there's nothing else there. Meeting my boyfriend changed everything for me. I may have gone from a size 9 to now a size 13 but I am happier than I ever was. I tell you what ladies, if he has an issue with your size it can never work. He will find somebody that meets his standards. A man who loves you will love YOU. I know that sounds like an obvious statement but its more evident to me more than ever and the right person really does make a huge difference in a woman's life. I hope things have worked out for our original poster and she is no longer a victim to things that shouldn't even be an issue in a relationship. Stay happy, healthy, and confident ladies.
October 16, 2015 - 10:01pmThis Comment
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