I think that you were right to move out. It isn't fair to put this amount of pressure on someone over their weight and "Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds"!
It is especially unkind for your boyfriend to want you to to loose weight because his friends are judging him! What kind of people is he friends with and what does this say about him!?
I believe that you were brave and strong to move out and you were right not to agree to loose weight for him.If you ever choose to loose the weight, it should be for you. You seem to respect yourself and this will take you far. You will meet someone who loves you the way you are and who doesn't try to change you. He sounds immature and somewhat controlling.
You will be fine.
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I think that you were right to move out. It isn't fair to put this amount of pressure on someone over their weight and "Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds"!
June 19, 2009 - 11:03amIt is especially unkind for your boyfriend to want you to to loose weight because his friends are judging him! What kind of people is he friends with and what does this say about him!?
I believe that you were brave and strong to move out and you were right not to agree to loose weight for him.If you ever choose to loose the weight, it should be for you. You seem to respect yourself and this will take you far. You will meet someone who loves you the way you are and who doesn't try to change you. He sounds immature and somewhat controlling.
You will be fine.
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