hello all woman, just to start things off i am a man and i am looking for a female perspective of what my feelings are. For my bachelor party i am going paint balling then to a comedy club to bar that has an all you can eat wings night and then to a casino and NO strippers. A pretty fun night that will include some of my favorite things and hanging out with my best buds. My finance on the other hand wants to go out for a night of an all you can drink clubbing followed by going to the strippers and god knows what else. I am not disrespecting any women at all by saying this but i make good money and provide her with everything as she does not work at the moment i am paying for the wedding and her bachelorette party and i somewhat feel entitled to kind of put the boundaries on certain things (feel free to disagree with me as your feelings maybe different then mine) I am not trying to be controlling and even if I wasn't paying I would still prefer if she did not go to the strippers. I have suggested flying her and her friends out to California to do some shopping and spend a weekend at spa and get the whole pampered treatment. i trust her and love her and know that she her self would never do anything wrong. her friends on the other hand are all single wild and crazy girls just looking for "fun" and i know what it feels like to be left out and they would pressure her to do things because they think that it's a bachelorette party its last night to be a free woman and no body wants to be a party pooper. I have heard "horror" stories about things that have happened at these parties. I love this girl so much and would never want anything to ruin the life that we have ahead of us. she says she owes it to her friends to go see strippers as some of them the way they are may never get married. i just don't understand why she doesn't see my point of it should be celebrating the fact that you getting married not the fact that its your last chance to be single
I am open to all criticism even if you disagree please explain why as it may help me understand why I am wrong.
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hello all woman, just to start things off i am a man and i am looking for a female perspective of what my feelings are. For my bachelor party i am going paint balling then to a comedy club to bar that has an all you can eat wings night and then to a casino and NO strippers. A pretty fun night that will include some of my favorite things and hanging out with my best buds. My finance on the other hand wants to go out for a night of an all you can drink clubbing followed by going to the strippers and god knows what else. I am not disrespecting any women at all by saying this but i make good money and provide her with everything as she does not work at the moment i am paying for the wedding and her bachelorette party and i somewhat feel entitled to kind of put the boundaries on certain things (feel free to disagree with me as your feelings maybe different then mine) I am not trying to be controlling and even if I wasn't paying I would still prefer if she did not go to the strippers. I have suggested flying her and her friends out to California to do some shopping and spend a weekend at spa and get the whole pampered treatment. i trust her and love her and know that she her self would never do anything wrong. her friends on the other hand are all single wild and crazy girls just looking for "fun" and i know what it feels like to be left out and they would pressure her to do things because they think that it's a bachelorette party its last night to be a free woman and no body wants to be a party pooper. I have heard "horror" stories about things that have happened at these parties. I love this girl so much and would never want anything to ruin the life that we have ahead of us. she says she owes it to her friends to go see strippers as some of them the way they are may never get married. i just don't understand why she doesn't see my point of it should be celebrating the fact that you getting married not the fact that its your last chance to be single
I am open to all criticism even if you disagree please explain why as it may help me understand why I am wrong.
August 3, 2010 - 3:30pmThis Comment
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