Hi everyone, I've been married for a month now and also very scared of losing my virginity because of the pain. But to be honest it was only all on our head and the fear is getting the best of us. My husband and I tried it twice after a week of our marriage, on our second try I gathered all my courage and trusted my husband. It doesn't hurt that bad, and also I am nervous that time. Very. Your husband entering you is not a dangerous thing, it is not deadly. Don't fight it, don't focus on the pain it's NOT that bad. Even when it hurts don't stop, when you feel that pain just let go and relax tell your partner to be slow, relax your thighs if you feel pain it will reduced. Don't stop it. Sex is not something to be scared of, it is the broken marriage and no love making that hurts and scarier. Believe me you can tolerate that pain. Trust me. It is very tolerable. When my husband told me "we're already doing it, we're having sex" I felt relieved because the pain is not that bad it won't hurt anymore, that's it. I will tell you that PAIN you will feel will not last long. And that pain will only occur once, on the next intercourse you wouldn't feel that PAIN so treasure that moment, treasure that feeling. I just felt that pain briefly then it disappeared. I can say that it was uncomfortable and weird but not that painful. It was worth the pain because the happiness after that will last, focus on that. :) Remember it is your husband's right and you must grant it to them. And the most important thing is, if you truly love your husband you will give him everything. So do not let fear control you, beat it and laugh later! I did it you can! Control your thoughts.
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Hi everyone, I've been married for a month now and also very scared of losing my virginity because of the pain. But to be honest it was only all on our head and the fear is getting the best of us. My husband and I tried it twice after a week of our marriage, on our second try I gathered all my courage and trusted my husband. It doesn't hurt that bad, and also I am nervous that time. Very. Your husband entering you is not a dangerous thing, it is not deadly. Don't fight it, don't focus on the pain it's NOT that bad. Even when it hurts don't stop, when you feel that pain just let go and relax tell your partner to be slow, relax your thighs if you feel pain it will reduced. Don't stop it. Sex is not something to be scared of, it is the broken marriage and no love making that hurts and scarier. Believe me you can tolerate that pain. Trust me. It is very tolerable. When my husband told me "we're already doing it, we're having sex" I felt relieved because the pain is not that bad it won't hurt anymore, that's it. I will tell you that PAIN you will feel will not last long. And that pain will only occur once, on the next intercourse you wouldn't feel that PAIN so treasure that moment, treasure that feeling. I just felt that pain briefly then it disappeared. I can say that it was uncomfortable and weird but not that painful. It was worth the pain because the happiness after that will last, focus on that. :) Remember it is your husband's right and you must grant it to them. And the most important thing is, if you truly love your husband you will give him everything. So do not let fear control you, beat it and laugh later! I did it you can! Control your thoughts.
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