Hi,
I did like you and tried not to pressure him, even stopped making the first move, then he would say that I didn't love him anymore! Can't win!!! But if I don't make the first move, nothing happens! I'd be lucky to get it once a year if I didn't make the effort. I've chatted to his Mum about it and she said his Dad was exactly the same - doesn't bode well for the future as they are divorced now. I know there's more to a relationship than just sex, and when we get on it's great, but my main issue now is this texting with his ex, he knows it upsets me and every time his phone beeps, I'm wondering whether it's her! I just wish we could have moved into our new home with a 'fresh start' and that means forget the past, ditch the exes and try to make our relationship work. I always visualised being in a happy relationship with a 'normal' bf, the past relationships I've had have been fine sexually, I've never experienced this kind of situation before, my exes couldn't keep their hands off me. I wish I knew then what I know now as I probably wouldn't have split up with my Fiance, but C'est la vie' too late now. Hope you all find the happiness you're looking for, I'll let you know if I ever find mine!
xx
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Hi,
October 14, 2010 - 2:20amI did like you and tried not to pressure him, even stopped making the first move, then he would say that I didn't love him anymore! Can't win!!! But if I don't make the first move, nothing happens! I'd be lucky to get it once a year if I didn't make the effort. I've chatted to his Mum about it and she said his Dad was exactly the same - doesn't bode well for the future as they are divorced now. I know there's more to a relationship than just sex, and when we get on it's great, but my main issue now is this texting with his ex, he knows it upsets me and every time his phone beeps, I'm wondering whether it's her! I just wish we could have moved into our new home with a 'fresh start' and that means forget the past, ditch the exes and try to make our relationship work. I always visualised being in a happy relationship with a 'normal' bf, the past relationships I've had have been fine sexually, I've never experienced this kind of situation before, my exes couldn't keep their hands off me. I wish I knew then what I know now as I probably wouldn't have split up with my Fiance, but C'est la vie' too late now. Hope you all find the happiness you're looking for, I'll let you know if I ever find mine!
xx
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