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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Hey there,
I know this post may be a little old but I was in a situation similar to yours with someone who used me to fulfill selfish sexual pleasure I wasn't comfortable with fulfilling.
Honestly though, I do hope you found someone you can be more mentally and emotionally attached to. It actually aggravates me a bit to hear that he said YOU should be lucky he hadn't cheated on you. That's a pig for you. I'm an equalist and I admit comfortably that I have a low sex drive. I rarely have sex but when I do it's usually very passionate and sometimes goofy. I'm with someone who feels the same way as I do about sex. I love my boyfriend for who he is and his personality is much more attractive than his body ( not that he isn't attractive).
It's really about understanding and a connection that makes you feel emotionally well. Your emotions matter and no douche bag with a rodents sex drive should make you feel any different.
You're a person who matters and not some object to abuse.
That's exactly what that is, emotional and verbal abuse.
Love is out there for you, unfortunately it's not with this guy. He simply isn't mature enough for you. Never give up and please never allow someone to make you feel like something is wrong with you because of your low sex drive, unless there is real concern involved.
I wish you and your heart well.

March 21, 2015 - 10:37pm

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