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I have been going through the same exact thing...my bf has only let me give him a bj in the 1 1/2 years we've been together and only 3 times at that...he has promised many many times we will be intimate and when that time comes, he has some excuse not to...we've even been to the hottubs about 3 times and he doesn't even make a move or even look at me with desire, it's like he isn't even interested in me...I don't know what to do, I don't understand why this is happening...he has a 100 y.o. mother that he lets jerk him around and treats him like shit, has never said she loves him, says he is not her son, but he is attached so much to her that he won't even stay after work to be with me for a few minutes because he has to get home because his mom will be mad and he will be in trouble...(I have a client where he works)...He has asked me to marry him and 4 days before he postponed it...and he recently told me to make a date and we will keep it and get married...I said hell no...I love this man so much, but he is ripping my heart out and stomping on it over and over...any suggestions on what I should do?