The porn is so exciting to many men with all that's available on the internet that no one woman can compete. This was the problem with us. Eventually he quit it and we were fine but it took a lot of time.
But if you are sure that he has no access to porn then I guess you are fine with that at least.
Have you thought about therapy for him or both of you?
Could you live without much sex? Are you 100% sure that he is not gay?
Many men who are homophobic are so because they are really gay. obviously, I can't know whether he is or not but clearly there is soemthing going on. Do you guys have good, open communication? Is he honest with you. Is he masturbating much? If so, why doesn't he "save" himself for you. It sounds like you need a closer relationship than what you have and if you are not having sex, then you may as well be brother and sister.
Is he maybe stressed at work? Is he depressed?
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The porn is so exciting to many men with all that's available on the internet that no one woman can compete. This was the problem with us. Eventually he quit it and we were fine but it took a lot of time.
July 22, 2009 - 11:31pmBut if you are sure that he has no access to porn then I guess you are fine with that at least.
Have you thought about therapy for him or both of you?
Could you live without much sex? Are you 100% sure that he is not gay?
Many men who are homophobic are so because they are really gay. obviously, I can't know whether he is or not but clearly there is soemthing going on. Do you guys have good, open communication? Is he honest with you. Is he masturbating much? If so, why doesn't he "save" himself for you. It sounds like you need a closer relationship than what you have and if you are not having sex, then you may as well be brother and sister.
Is he maybe stressed at work? Is he depressed?
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