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By July 30, 2009 - 7:38am
 
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hi all. me and my gf recently humped. and i accidentally shoot it out at that area.
i was having my boxers on. and she was having her boxers on and underwear. the boxers was wet and so was the underwear. could she get pregnant ?
i didnt masturbate for 2weeks + so dun tink there is any sperms in pre cum.
please help as i went to the doctors and ask. he told me that it was not possible at all as there was no intercouse.. but my gf was still insecure. ): we are both virgins. so is the possibility of getting pregnant 0%?
help would be greatly appreciated. thanks (:

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her period came! thanks all (:

August 21, 2009 - 6:19pm

oh. just to add. after she saw her panties was wet. i told her to wash her vagina as i remember that sperm will die when in contact with water.. will that at least even lower the chances of pregnancy ?

August 18, 2009 - 10:00pm

thanks for the above info and help (:
now just praying for her period to come.

August 7, 2009 - 12:28pm

Hi Gilver,
It sounds like Susan answered your questions, but I wanted to answer your last one. (You're question "why?" in response to her question: "have either of you taken sex education classes?")

The reason Susan asked, is that some of your questions sounded as though you and your girlfriend were unfamiliar with your own bodies and with how pregnancy happens.

It's very complicated process, but knowing the basics will help you and your girlfriend immensely!

Some of the basics of "pregnancy" and "menstruation":

Why is my girlfriends underwear wet?
Your girlfriends underwear was probably wet from her own vaginal secretions. The vagina becomes moist and wet when a woman is aroused, and acts as lubrication during intercourse.

Pregnant with clothes on?
You can not get pregnant with clothes on. Your sperm is "mighty", but you would be surprised how "fragile" sperm really is! It can only live a short time (minutes, up to an hour possibly) outside of the body (on clothes, for instance). However, when sperm is inside a woman's body and she is most fertile, it creates a very welcoming environment for sperm, and the sperm can last up to 3 or 5 days inside her body waiting for an egg to be released!

When does ovulation occur?
A woman is most fertile around time of ovulation, which is in the middle of her cycle (assuming her period is "regular" each month)

My girlfriend has symptoms of pregnancy...
Pregnancy symptoms do not occur until a woman is 5-6 weeks pregnant (for most women). Some women can have some symptoms as early as 4 weeks, but this is not the norm (especially for young women who are not trying to become pregnant).

How to know if my gf is pregnant?
A woman can not know if she is pregnant with a positive pregnancy test until she has missed her period, and at that time, she is said to be about 4 weeks pregnant (although conception occurred only in the previous 2 weeks, as ovulation and fertilization occurs 2 weeks before a period--this is confusing!).

Other pregnancy signs?
The only way a woman knows if she is pregnant at 4 weeks: a missed period and positive pregnancy test. Sore breasts may be the first clue of pregnancy, as well as problem complexion (acne), but these are also symptoms of a period (PMS). (for others reading: of course, there are exceptions...but this is related to this question specifically)

Is there "pre-cum" on my penis?
Anytime a man's penis becomes erect, there is pre-ejaculatory fluid on the tip of his penis. The pre-ejaculatory fluid may/may not contain sperm (it is best to assume there always is; there is no method to tell either way). If a man masturbates days before, or minutes before, a sexual encounter with another person is irrelevant. If he has another erection, then pre-ejaculatory fluid will appear again on the tip of his penis. Sperm is always present in semen, whether he ejaculates one time a month or ten times a day!

...and lastly...
How to not get pregnant?
Kissing, touching, caressing, holding each other, even "humping" with clothes on...these are all ways to be physically intimate without a possibility of pregnancy. Condoms can be 85-98% effective at preventing an unwanted pregnancy and preventing the spread of STDs/STIs. I'm sure you know this, so be sure to use a condom if you choose to have sexual intercourse!

Hope this information helps!

August 2, 2009 - 6:13am

now she told me that she is experiencing loss in appetite and headaches. ):
these symptoms seems to be under early signs of pregnancy.
will the signs appear so quicky?? sigh

August 1, 2009 - 5:39am

Your doctor is correct--- pregnancy can not happen if sperm did not enter into your girlfriend's vagina. Sperm can not travel through clothes.

oh--and the correct name for "shoot it out" is "ejaculate", just so you know for next time!

I wanted to let you know that your body is creating sperm at all times. I had not heard that some young men think the act of not masturbating causes sperm to stop. This is not true; you have the capability of "getting a girl pregnant" at any time.

Also, anytime your penis is erect, whether you are masturbating or engaging in sexual activity with another person, your penis will have "pre-ejaculate" fluid on the tip. Pre-ejaculate fluid may contain sperm.

Lastly, it is possible to become pregnant and be a virgin. If a man ejaculates near or on a woman's vagina (and does not enter, so they are technically "virgins"), some very motivated sperm can theoretically travel into the vagina and fallopian tubes (where fertilization occurs).

Please be sure to talk with your girlfriend about using birth control (condoms for you and hormonal contraception for her) if you ever choose to have intercourse.

July 30, 2009 - 12:13pm
(reply to Alison Beaver)

thanks. i know the word for shoot it out is ejaculate. but im shy as im new to this web.
i thought if i recently masturbated den there might be sperms in the pre cum ??

so its 100% that she cant get pregnant ? i ejaculated in my boxers. and all the semen were on my boxers. cos she is very worried as her underwear was quite wet too.

July 31, 2009 - 4:12am
(reply to gilver)

my gf told me that she is experiencing pain in abdomen area now. and i read online that it is one of the symtoms of pregnancy. pls help im really feeling stress now.
isit possbile that she is experiencing pain due to the humping ? which is like one day only?
her period started on 20th july. or is it her ovulation period ? will the sperm ( if any ) stay side for more den a day ??

July 31, 2009 - 11:18am
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