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Thank you for your reply. The quality of sex is great. He will usually participate if I initiate it. I just start to feel less desirable when I have to do all the initiating. In his other relationships the women cheated on him. I am also alot more open with my feelings both physically and verbally. He is not. Thats part of where my frustration comes in. I know by his actions that he really cares for me. I sometimes feel like he really dosen't know what to do with me, I am very unlike his past relationships. In the past the women he was with took advantage of him, his kindness as well as his wallet and I don't believe in either. When we sleep he is the one who will always snuggle with me and will move around so that he is always touching me in some way during the night. When we relax in the evening he will lay on the couch with his head in my lap. He has so many good qualities that I don't want to abandon this relationship. I do notice that anytime we start to get intimate or evening kissing and hugging goodby gets to intense he will break the mood with tickeling me or doing something silly. He has never said I love you but his actions say it. He did not have a good relationship with his mother and I think intimacy scares him. I have never been in a relationship with someone like this and I am not sure how to handle any of it. My last relationship was with an alcoholic and I spent over a year putting my life in order before I ever even started dating. I have matured greatly and am trying new things in this relationship and am on really unfamiliar ground. I am learning to let people be who they are and love them for that but it gets really confusing. Thank you for letting me ramble. I don't have anyone to tell this stuff to. I work with this man and one of my close friends also works here and I would never compromise him to anyone so I have noone to really talk to about this issue and it is very personal and private. thanks