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I wanted to say how sorry I am that this happened, and to add another perspective.

I agree 100% that the best thing to do is confide in either an adult who is a counselor, a family or a teacher at school. You should not be put through the stress of seeing your attacker on a continuous basis; this is not safe.

My other perspective: what if the story you came up with in your head, regarding how your family would react, would be different? I'm sure you can relate to this, as many of us have done this: created this detailed story in our minds about other's reactions, only to find out that we were completely wrong and we are surprised by their reactions. Does this sound familiar? If so, I would find one close, trusted family member and open up to them (you may do this after you speak with a counselor at school; I still think your main priority is to get out of a situation where you see your cousin).

Please, at least consider the possibility that your family will react in a more positive and supportive manner...unless you have many concrete previous experiences that tell you otherwise. Please talk with a trusted adult TODAY, as you are right---you can not continue living this way. I am so sorry.

August 15, 2009 - 8:05pm

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