I am aware that not every person who views porn is addicted but I have been with men who WERE; meaning that they PREFERRED sex alone with their computers than sex with a pretty, willing woman.
I was not invited to join in on their onanism but left, alone with no sex at all. This to me says addiction. It is not normal to prefer cybersex than actual sex. Masturbation to images on a computer screen is NOT sex, it is voyeurism. The lady above is not having her needs met. She is not happy with a porn addict boyfriend, so this is NOT a happy relationship. And if you are with a man who will not have sex with you and continues to wank away to porn despite your upset at this fact, then he is not respecting you or women in general.
It sounds like you are content to have pornography as part of your relationship. This is fine if it doesn't bother you. We all have different desires and needs.
For me, porn is unacceptable as I personally feel that it degrades women, emasculates men and weakens bonds in relationships....but that is just how I feel.
I merely pointed out to scarlet24 that her boyfriend might have an addiction if he is unwilling to have sex with her but happy to use porn. Anon, I think you missed the point.
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I am aware that not every person who views porn is addicted but I have been with men who WERE; meaning that they PREFERRED sex alone with their computers than sex with a pretty, willing woman.
August 7, 2009 - 10:50amI was not invited to join in on their onanism but left, alone with no sex at all. This to me says addiction. It is not normal to prefer cybersex than actual sex. Masturbation to images on a computer screen is NOT sex, it is voyeurism. The lady above is not having her needs met. She is not happy with a porn addict boyfriend, so this is NOT a happy relationship. And if you are with a man who will not have sex with you and continues to wank away to porn despite your upset at this fact, then he is not respecting you or women in general.
It sounds like you are content to have pornography as part of your relationship. This is fine if it doesn't bother you. We all have different desires and needs.
For me, porn is unacceptable as I personally feel that it degrades women, emasculates men and weakens bonds in relationships....but that is just how I feel.
I merely pointed out to scarlet24 that her boyfriend might have an addiction if he is unwilling to have sex with her but happy to use porn. Anon, I think you missed the point.
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