I understand what you mean, but please be careful not to overreact about something involving this because I think it is pretty obvious that your boyfriend loves you very much. I think that every man will have some odd little fantasy or kink tucked away that is more like a quirk of the personality more than anything, and it is not something that could ever come close to stealing him away. I also think that especially in your case, the guy knows that porn is not real. It's just an idea. The idea is pleasure, that's all. He knows that the greatest pleasure, emotional and physical, is making love. And there is nothing that can divert his attention from you in that respect. When the two of you are together, he's not thinking about porn or silly fantasies. He's thinking about how beautiful and sexy you are, and how he must be the luckiest guy in the world. I know it's a little hard to think of that when you accidentally come across the porn he's saved. :P But, you do know that it's true. :]
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I understand what you mean, but please be careful not to overreact about something involving this because I think it is pretty obvious that your boyfriend loves you very much. I think that every man will have some odd little fantasy or kink tucked away that is more like a quirk of the personality more than anything, and it is not something that could ever come close to stealing him away. I also think that especially in your case, the guy knows that porn is not real. It's just an idea. The idea is pleasure, that's all. He knows that the greatest pleasure, emotional and physical, is making love. And there is nothing that can divert his attention from you in that respect. When the two of you are together, he's not thinking about porn or silly fantasies. He's thinking about how beautiful and sexy you are, and how he must be the luckiest guy in the world. I know it's a little hard to think of that when you accidentally come across the porn he's saved. :P But, you do know that it's true. :]
September 25, 2009 - 3:20pmThis Comment
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