I too, am having the same problem. Only mines, a little more complicated.. im 22, so is my boyfriend. We both work at a local restraunt, same shift, same days off, and we live together. we are best friends, but spend way too much time together. we have lived together since october, started dating in july but were friends who occasionally messed around or spent time together for 2 years before we became exclusive. i am completely in love with him, i am extremely attracted to him, and almost satisfied. the past 2 or 3 months we've been having sex less and less; he watches more and more porn, and spends alot more time in the shower. since im still so attracted to him, i try to seduce him regularly, and when it doesnt work it upsets me, because it hardly works! i have tried quite a few times to talk about it with him, and he says not everyone wants to have sex everyday and i almost plead that i need to be pleased too. (sex is a very important part of a relationship to me, especially since i feel so strongly for him) He doesnt know, that i know, about the showers or the excessive porn. when i go to bed, or the rare occasion i work and hes off, or i go out with a friend or my mom, he watches porn- ive seen the internet history quite a few times. i know he likes porn, hes told me, and thats okay, and he knows i dont mind if he pleases himself *once in a while* but i want to still experience the intimacy of our new relationship. its not like we never have sex,but every four or five or six days just isnt enough for me. i am not sure how to act, he thinks im too horny, thats not true at all, im the same ive always been, its him thats not. i really hope that someone can get back to me soon. thanks in advance.
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I too, am having the same problem. Only mines, a little more complicated.. im 22, so is my boyfriend. We both work at a local restraunt, same shift, same days off, and we live together. we are best friends, but spend way too much time together. we have lived together since october, started dating in july but were friends who occasionally messed around or spent time together for 2 years before we became exclusive. i am completely in love with him, i am extremely attracted to him, and almost satisfied. the past 2 or 3 months we've been having sex less and less; he watches more and more porn, and spends alot more time in the shower. since im still so attracted to him, i try to seduce him regularly, and when it doesnt work it upsets me, because it hardly works! i have tried quite a few times to talk about it with him, and he says not everyone wants to have sex everyday and i almost plead that i need to be pleased too. (sex is a very important part of a relationship to me, especially since i feel so strongly for him) He doesnt know, that i know, about the showers or the excessive porn. when i go to bed, or the rare occasion i work and hes off, or i go out with a friend or my mom, he watches porn- ive seen the internet history quite a few times. i know he likes porn, hes told me, and thats okay, and he knows i dont mind if he pleases himself *once in a while* but i want to still experience the intimacy of our new relationship. its not like we never have sex,but every four or five or six days just isnt enough for me. i am not sure how to act, he thinks im too horny, thats not true at all, im the same ive always been, its him thats not. i really hope that someone can get back to me soon. thanks in advance.
February 3, 2010 - 11:43pmThis Comment
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