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Eh, I get what he means. He and I are in the same boat, just as far as impotence goes. "Praying to die" isn't how I'd describe my general outlook--seems a bit drastic--but I do dwell on the problem a few hours a day. This might be twenty-something logic, but I've always kind of figured that work, dieting, exercise, dressing up, housekeeping, small-talk, yada yada, are really just things I do so that love and sex available to me. Now that I have ED, all those non-sex pursuits are done purely for their own sake, and it turns out they're really boring.

Question for female commenters: when your SO's ED makes you incredibly frustrated/blows up your relationship, is it because intercourse itself is extremely important, or is it because your partner wouldn't do other things to please you sexually? Because I figure if I can get away with just basically giving unreciprocated oral and whatnot, I could manage that. I'd really like to get into a relationship, and then not have it blow up unnecessarily, so my question is something I wonder a lot about.