I am a guy with erection problems from an accident I had when I was younger. For all of you women, your boyfriends are not gay or unattracted to you. I would venture to say that is almost never the case with these sorts of problems. Occasionally it can be due to anxiety, especially after a guy has recently gotten out of a nasty relationship and is just starting to date again. Most of the time though it is a physical problem. Erections are very complex and require a lot more to go right physiologically than it does for you ladies. Blood flow problems, hormonal imbalances, physical trauma, diabetes, the list goes on and on. Please keep in mind though that if your boyfriend is experiencing these things, he is without a doubt devestated beyond words. Impotence for a man is worse than death. An impotent man feels that he will never have a family, children, love, or the respect of his peers, especially if he is young. Nothing in your life seems to matter anymore, and many of us pray to die on a daily basis, and merely go on for the sake of our families. Whatever happens, please be kind and understand how terrible this is for him. His problem has nothing to do with you. If he is distant or pushes you away it is because he fears being humiliated and letting you down. You need to make a descision on whether or not you are willing to stay with him in spite of his problem, as in all likelihood it will never be fully normal. Viagra might help for a while, but even that can lose its effect over time. If you do want to stay, you need to encourage him and make him believe that he can satisfy you 100% through other means. Men need to believe that they can take care of the woman they love in all ways. No man is happy if he feels that he is responsible for depriving the woman he loves of her sexual enjoyment. Finally, make sure he understands that you respect him fully as a man. Respect is everything to us and it will help him to perform to the best of whatever ability he has left.
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I am a guy with erection problems from an accident I had when I was younger. For all of you women, your boyfriends are not gay or unattracted to you. I would venture to say that is almost never the case with these sorts of problems. Occasionally it can be due to anxiety, especially after a guy has recently gotten out of a nasty relationship and is just starting to date again. Most of the time though it is a physical problem. Erections are very complex and require a lot more to go right physiologically than it does for you ladies. Blood flow problems, hormonal imbalances, physical trauma, diabetes, the list goes on and on. Please keep in mind though that if your boyfriend is experiencing these things, he is without a doubt devestated beyond words. Impotence for a man is worse than death. An impotent man feels that he will never have a family, children, love, or the respect of his peers, especially if he is young. Nothing in your life seems to matter anymore, and many of us pray to die on a daily basis, and merely go on for the sake of our families. Whatever happens, please be kind and understand how terrible this is for him. His problem has nothing to do with you. If he is distant or pushes you away it is because he fears being humiliated and letting you down. You need to make a descision on whether or not you are willing to stay with him in spite of his problem, as in all likelihood it will never be fully normal. Viagra might help for a while, but even that can lose its effect over time. If you do want to stay, you need to encourage him and make him believe that he can satisfy you 100% through other means. Men need to believe that they can take care of the woman they love in all ways. No man is happy if he feels that he is responsible for depriving the woman he loves of her sexual enjoyment. Finally, make sure he understands that you respect him fully as a man. Respect is everything to us and it will help him to perform to the best of whatever ability he has left.
May 10, 2010 - 5:51pmThis Comment
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