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I have never responded on this site, however i am so glad to have found this. I have been married going on 5 yrs this November. I thought i married my best friend and soul mate! We have a 3 yr old son together. I have found last year that My husband has been going onto Craig's List and checking on the men seeking men page. When confronted about of course he denied it and told me i was crazy. My husband is what you would call a man's man! Very macho in areas. So for this to be found out is scary for him.I tried to believe him, but i could not push it out of my mind. We went to counseling and he made it seem like i was being insecure. I found text on his phone that were completely inappropriate. Things that he would never say to me. Its like his inner sexy comes out with men. We have not had sex in over a year, however he wants people to think we do. I feel betrayed and confused!!!! He has changed and become extremely MEAN AND RUDE! He is only affectionate towards our son. I just feel lost and have no where to turn! Advice needed