I would recommend that you leave him immediately, ask your mom to move back in for a month while you arrange a new living situation, and get some counseling to help you work through this. He is not a wonderful person - he is a confirmed liar who is using you. He wants the benefits without the commitment of marriage. On top of that, the way he has set up the game, he could be telling the other woman exactly the same thing and not make any change.
You deserve a man who will love you enough to marry you. You deserve to be able to trust the man you have committed yourself to. You aren't thinking rationally about this and discussing this issue with some of your friends would show you that.
I wish you luck with your decision but I don't see how anything will really change if you stay with him.
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Hi Kitty:
I would recommend that you leave him immediately, ask your mom to move back in for a month while you arrange a new living situation, and get some counseling to help you work through this. He is not a wonderful person - he is a confirmed liar who is using you. He wants the benefits without the commitment of marriage. On top of that, the way he has set up the game, he could be telling the other woman exactly the same thing and not make any change.
You deserve a man who will love you enough to marry you. You deserve to be able to trust the man you have committed yourself to. You aren't thinking rationally about this and discussing this issue with some of your friends would show you that.
I wish you luck with your decision but I don't see how anything will really change if you stay with him.
August 21, 2009 - 6:41amThis Comment
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