There are certain truths to the fact that taking care of four children would certainly be time consuming in every aspect of the man’s life. My response to you would be, you are in control of you own life. He may spend four hours with you but that is probably everything that he can offer to you. It would be up to you if that is ‘okay’ with your wants and needs.
Remember you are in control of your love life, if you need more; this is not the man for you. If you are willing to sacrifice the daily text messages and deep down you know this man is spending the rest of his waking hours with his children, step back and don’t take offense to the minimal time he offers.
Ultimately it is your decision. You are in complete control and if you need more, there will certainly be another man that can offer you what you desire. I hope this helps.
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Dear Confused in Texas,
There are certain truths to the fact that taking care of four children would certainly be time consuming in every aspect of the man’s life. My response to you would be, you are in control of you own life. He may spend four hours with you but that is probably everything that he can offer to you. It would be up to you if that is ‘okay’ with your wants and needs.
Remember you are in control of your love life, if you need more; this is not the man for you. If you are willing to sacrifice the daily text messages and deep down you know this man is spending the rest of his waking hours with his children, step back and don’t take offense to the minimal time he offers.
Ultimately it is your decision. You are in complete control and if you need more, there will certainly be another man that can offer you what you desire. I hope this helps.
Best of luck.
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