I must completely agree with Rosa and Susanc. First of all, there is not one man in this world that don't have sexual fantasies. It is so normal. I think you really need to take a stand and tell him that you can't have sexual intimacy on your balcony! Maybe you have told him no but he needs to know that it is so wrong and so disrespectful not only to other people but to himself! I think Rosa and Susanc pretty much covered everything up but honestly im here to tell you never ever think it is your fault. If you feel uncomfortable with the odd things he asks you to do so he can be satisfied then you have every right to say no! It is your body and you have a say in it...if he really truely loves you, he will accept that and not storm out of the house because you won't do something he is basically forcing you to do! It really is affecting your self esteem and it shouldn't! Never let a man put you down no matter what it is he says or does! Take Care of yourself and stick up for yourself. Remember you are doing nothing wrong!
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Dear preciousgift1,
I must completely agree with Rosa and Susanc. First of all, there is not one man in this world that don't have sexual fantasies. It is so normal. I think you really need to take a stand and tell him that you can't have sexual intimacy on your balcony! Maybe you have told him no but he needs to know that it is so wrong and so disrespectful not only to other people but to himself! I think Rosa and Susanc pretty much covered everything up but honestly im here to tell you never ever think it is your fault. If you feel uncomfortable with the odd things he asks you to do so he can be satisfied then you have every right to say no! It is your body and you have a say in it...if he really truely loves you, he will accept that and not storm out of the house because you won't do something he is basically forcing you to do! It really is affecting your self esteem and it shouldn't! Never let a man put you down no matter what it is he says or does! Take Care of yourself and stick up for yourself. Remember you are doing nothing wrong!
September 10, 2009 - 5:58pmThis Comment
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