Having great, even good sex depends on the level of communication and friendship between partners. Therefore those in a healthy long term relationship can build there sex lives together for years, which will take you beyond what the professionals call your sexual peak. I agree, books that claim to show you the new best sex positions etc are bogus, and I have found anything that depicts the model perfect couple is highly suspecious. However, there are good books and videos out there that address the whole of a relationship and show you steps to learn more about one anothers bodies, improve your communication, and even offer a wider view of what orgasm beyond climaxing can be. Desire - it has been repressed by societies rules, especially for women, it is hard to even know what it feels like let alone how to cultivate it. There are people who know precisely what can keep sex "hot" between partners for many years and have made this information available in yes, books, and videos and even courses and they have been doing it for years. One example is the Welcomed Consensus - yes their focus is female orgasm, and yes they do offer a technique called Deliberate Orgasm, but the biggest part of this is about the relationship, making it a prority, being friends and talking honestly, approving of one another, and having a sex life together that builds and gets better over time, and having fun. My partner and I have used their videos, taken their courses and know this to be true.
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Having great, even good sex depends on the level of communication and friendship between partners. Therefore those in a healthy long term relationship can build there sex lives together for years, which will take you beyond what the professionals call your sexual peak. I agree, books that claim to show you the new best sex positions etc are bogus, and I have found anything that depicts the model perfect couple is highly suspecious. However, there are good books and videos out there that address the whole of a relationship and show you steps to learn more about one anothers bodies, improve your communication, and even offer a wider view of what orgasm beyond climaxing can be. Desire - it has been repressed by societies rules, especially for women, it is hard to even know what it feels like let alone how to cultivate it. There are people who know precisely what can keep sex "hot" between partners for many years and have made this information available in yes, books, and videos and even courses and they have been doing it for years. One example is the Welcomed Consensus - yes their focus is female orgasm, and yes they do offer a technique called Deliberate Orgasm, but the biggest part of this is about the relationship, making it a prority, being friends and talking honestly, approving of one another, and having a sex life together that builds and gets better over time, and having fun. My partner and I have used their videos, taken their courses and know this to be true.
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