I am a 37-year-old female, and in the last year, my sex drive has gone through the roof. I absolutely do not want anyone else but my husband. However, I think about sex constantly. I want him all the time, everywhere, anywhere. It is not appropriate. We have an eight-year-old son, and we are busy people. But I find myself thinking about 'doing' my husband constantly. He recently received a transplant, so we went a long while completely sex free. Now that he has recovered, we have sex about 2-3 times per week. If it were up to me, it would be 2-3 times per day! My husband and I are high school sweet hearts, and we've known each other since childhood, but I am having a difficult time talking to him about this. I feel like a pervert. I find myself thinking about sex during any time that my mind wanders. I have even started looking at porn websites (which never did anything for me before). Sexually, things with my husband have always been excellent, with no complaints. But now I can't get enough. I'll 'get there' and immediately want to do it again, and again. It's crazy! I have never been the type to use instruments or toys and masturbation has never been my thing. But I've even begun to try that (masturbation; not toys) just so that I can attempt to get some satisfaction. Again, I am not looking to stray from my marriage, but I have these unbelievable urges that are making me go crazy. I do not understand why I am having these feelings inside, all of a sudden. What can I do? How do I talk to him and is more sex the answer to this? How long does this last?
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I am a 37-year-old female, and in the last year, my sex drive has gone through the roof. I absolutely do not want anyone else but my husband. However, I think about sex constantly. I want him all the time, everywhere, anywhere. It is not appropriate. We have an eight-year-old son, and we are busy people. But I find myself thinking about 'doing' my husband constantly. He recently received a transplant, so we went a long while completely sex free. Now that he has recovered, we have sex about 2-3 times per week. If it were up to me, it would be 2-3 times per day! My husband and I are high school sweet hearts, and we've known each other since childhood, but I am having a difficult time talking to him about this. I feel like a pervert. I find myself thinking about sex during any time that my mind wanders. I have even started looking at porn websites (which never did anything for me before). Sexually, things with my husband have always been excellent, with no complaints. But now I can't get enough. I'll 'get there' and immediately want to do it again, and again. It's crazy! I have never been the type to use instruments or toys and masturbation has never been my thing. But I've even begun to try that (masturbation; not toys) just so that I can attempt to get some satisfaction. Again, I am not looking to stray from my marriage, but I have these unbelievable urges that are making me go crazy. I do not understand why I am having these feelings inside, all of a sudden. What can I do? How do I talk to him and is more sex the answer to this? How long does this last?
July 25, 2017 - 5:17pmThis Comment
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