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I know that you must get so many of these all the time but I thought that I would comment because I've been very anxious lately and maybe it'll help me sleep better at night. A couple weeks ago my boyfriend stayed the night at my house and we started messing around a bit. I was wearing soffe shorts and underwear and he was wearing shorts (I forget what kind, I think basketball shorts) and underwear. While we were laying down we were cuddling (or spooning I guess) and I could feel his penis in between my legs but we were both still fully clothed. I asked him if I could pregnant just from it being there and he told me no, I had to ask because I get very worried. So later on we ended up dry humping still in the spooning position, so all of the motions were mostly by my butt, even if they weren't I hope it's ok because we remained fully clothed the entire time. Throughout the night he rubbed my vagina (bare skin) with his hand and noticed I was soaked, but I've asked him multiple times if he precame or ejaculated during us dry humping and he's certain he didn't. So I guess maybe it was just me getting excited. He didn't touch his penis prior to touching my vagina. A few days or so later he came up again and all we do is play with each other using our hands, there's only been one other time he's rubbed me bare but all of the other times have been through my underwear. (He doesn't finger me because I'm not ready for that and I haven't tried to do it myself.) And I've touched him through his shorts and bare also, immediately after I'm done I make sure to wash my hands thoroughly because I get paranoid, pee, wash them again, then go to bed. And I've never touched myself directly after touching him without washing my hands, at least if I've ever felt something wet on my hands I won't even adjust my underwear. So I try to be extremely cautious about it. Yesterday he was playing with himself but swore he didn't precum and he touched my inner thigh and shorts, and his hands weren't wet. That's everything that we've done and we've never had sex or touched genitals without layers of clothing between, and I always try to be cautious when we masturbate each other. He's told me that he's never came around me (or precame) or touched himself then touched me and I haven't let him finish while playing with him because I do get very worried. My period is very irregular, and I can't remember the date for the last one I had (in May). And I have been very stressed lately and having weird dreams and since it's summer I've been anxious about school starting up again. In general I'm just a very worrisome, anxious, paranoid person when it comes to things like this. Now I feel like I'm just psyching myself out to make me believe I'm pregnant. I didn't get my period for June but this has happened to me before, and since I've been stressing so much I thought that my period is probably pushed back because of it. I started looking up pages like this to maybe calm me down but some of them have only made me question everything and worry more. I've taken sexual education and I'm very familiar with it, my anxiety just makes me think otherwise and warps everything. I'm just worried that maybe he did precum while we were dry humping or some other activity but he didn't feel it (even though he tells me he clearly can) or that I'm magically somehow pregnant since I haven't gotten my period yet. I'm sorry this is so long and I probably seem like I'm overreacting (I know I am) but thank you for taking the time to read this and respond back to me. It means so much. :)

July 5, 2016 - 12:20pm

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