Welcome to EmpowHer, and thanks so much for your question. I'm very glad you found us.
First of all, you are an adult. No one but you and your boyfriend can tell you what is right or wrong for you, either sexually or otherwise. What makes something wrong for one person that is fine for another has to do with your beliefs and your desires. You clearly are in love with your boyfriend and are in a committed relationship. It should be for the two of you to decide.
The beliefs we grow up with, from family values and religion, are very important to us, and usually form the core of our own belief system. But if we choose something different for ourselves, it doesn't necessarily make us "wrong." The only thing that is truly "wrong," sexually speaking, is if one person forces themselves on another person who is unwilling.
It is very slightly possible to become pregnant when a man doesn't ejaculate, because he has pre-ejaculate fluid on his penis, and that contains sperm. When in the month did you have sex? Are you familiar with when you ovulate?
How far apart are your cycles usually, and are they regular?
Try not to freak out so much; stress itself can affect your hormones and delay your period. Since your last period was over Labor Day, you're really not even late yet, or not by much, am I correct?
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Am2429,
Welcome to EmpowHer, and thanks so much for your question. I'm very glad you found us.
First of all, you are an adult. No one but you and your boyfriend can tell you what is right or wrong for you, either sexually or otherwise. What makes something wrong for one person that is fine for another has to do with your beliefs and your desires. You clearly are in love with your boyfriend and are in a committed relationship. It should be for the two of you to decide.
The beliefs we grow up with, from family values and religion, are very important to us, and usually form the core of our own belief system. But if we choose something different for ourselves, it doesn't necessarily make us "wrong." The only thing that is truly "wrong," sexually speaking, is if one person forces themselves on another person who is unwilling.
It is very slightly possible to become pregnant when a man doesn't ejaculate, because he has pre-ejaculate fluid on his penis, and that contains sperm. When in the month did you have sex? Are you familiar with when you ovulate?
How far apart are your cycles usually, and are they regular?
Try not to freak out so much; stress itself can affect your hormones and delay your period. Since your last period was over Labor Day, you're really not even late yet, or not by much, am I correct?
October 1, 2009 - 9:41amThis Comment
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