hi married to a/s man for 45 yrs ,and yes they do not admit to having a problem.because THEY DONT HAVE A PROBLEM,we do/to them they are normal.the world and all the people who are not a/s have the problem.the a/s people in our family[many]are happy with the life they have.they just cant understand why we find it hard to live with them.so no good lecturing them on how they should change[been there,done that]as i am sure you found out,that makes things worseen leads to non a/s partner having breakdown[been there too]
so we have to accept them/adapt /learn to cope by reading all the good books about a/s.and of course its our choice to stay or not.
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hi married to a/s man for 45 yrs ,and yes they do not admit to having a problem.because THEY DONT HAVE A PROBLEM,we do/to them they are normal.the world and all the people who are not a/s have the problem.the a/s people in our family[many]are happy with the life they have.they just cant understand why we find it hard to live with them.so no good lecturing them on how they should change[been there,done that]as i am sure you found out,that makes things worseen leads to non a/s partner having breakdown[been there too]
December 9, 2010 - 4:26amso we have to accept them/adapt /learn to cope by reading all the good books about a/s.and of course its our choice to stay or not.
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