May I ask why you feel like a jerk? It's been 2 years since you've moved in and he expects you to believe that the ladies specialty bag has been there longer than that and that NOW you come to see it? Hm, his defensive behavior makes me wonder. A man who has never done anything wrong would simply explain where the bag came from-- it's really not that hard. Throwing the blame on you is the classic game men play to "flip the script" and he has obviously succeeded because he's got you calling yourself a jerk and apologizing when he should be the one doing so.
Unless he has a child with this ex girlfriend, her number should not be in his phone. Period. End of discussion.
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Fitgirl,
May I ask why you feel like a jerk? It's been 2 years since you've moved in and he expects you to believe that the ladies specialty bag has been there longer than that and that NOW you come to see it? Hm, his defensive behavior makes me wonder. A man who has never done anything wrong would simply explain where the bag came from-- it's really not that hard. Throwing the blame on you is the classic game men play to "flip the script" and he has obviously succeeded because he's got you calling yourself a jerk and apologizing when he should be the one doing so.
Unless he has a child with this ex girlfriend, her number should not be in his phone. Period. End of discussion.
October 8, 2009 - 5:44amThis Comment
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