Hi I'm a 44 yr old guy and for the past 2 yrs or so my sex drive has all but disappeared, I've been married (faithfully) to my darling wife for 22 yrs and right up to a few years ago we used to screw like rabbits, she was so active I was seriously considering taking on a laborer :) but in all honesty when she hit 40 her sex drive diminished considerably , she would still put out but it was labored and even repulsive (from her point of view) I know she loves me and she put it down to menopause which is kind of funny when you break it down, men ? O Pause. I don't know if her lack of drive was a reason for my later disinterest but It's definitely a problem for me lately. I still find her attractive , other women too but its like I've been castrated, I've been resolved not to take viagra or watch porn or cheat in any other way, but I do feel quite inadequate considering I'm only 44 . I am under quite a bit of pressure as I own my own business and this is quite a new concept. My wife is quite supportive as her drive is low as well , well except when she gets pissed then shes like May friggen West, but I often reluctantly turn her away , only because nothing is happening for me :( . I just wanted to throw this out there after reading some of the other posts from younger women in relationships with 40 yr old guys. I've always loved sex and have always considered it a major part of my relationships , I used to be quite insecure in myself as I was abandoned by my birth mother but my wife did a lot to restore my faith in women. We sometimes try role playing, well more me (she hates acting ) and that was helpful , even sick stuff where she pretends she's sleeping and I sneak in and very slowly pull away the bed sheet firstly exposing her breasts and well yeah I'm sure you can guess the rest but even that kinda of playful stuff has stopped. I'm not here to complain , just throwing it out into the world letting people know that this kinda shit happens , it's not planned and nor is it welcomed it's just how it is :(
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Hi I'm a 44 yr old guy and for the past 2 yrs or so my sex drive has all but disappeared, I've been married (faithfully) to my darling wife for 22 yrs and right up to a few years ago we used to screw like rabbits, she was so active I was seriously considering taking on a laborer :) but in all honesty when she hit 40 her sex drive diminished considerably , she would still put out but it was labored and even repulsive (from her point of view) I know she loves me and she put it down to menopause which is kind of funny when you break it down, men ? O Pause. I don't know if her lack of drive was a reason for my later disinterest but It's definitely a problem for me lately. I still find her attractive , other women too but its like I've been castrated, I've been resolved not to take viagra or watch porn or cheat in any other way, but I do feel quite inadequate considering I'm only 44 . I am under quite a bit of pressure as I own my own business and this is quite a new concept. My wife is quite supportive as her drive is low as well , well except when she gets pissed then shes like May friggen West, but I often reluctantly turn her away , only because nothing is happening for me :( . I just wanted to throw this out there after reading some of the other posts from younger women in relationships with 40 yr old guys. I've always loved sex and have always considered it a major part of my relationships , I used to be quite insecure in myself as I was abandoned by my birth mother but my wife did a lot to restore my faith in women. We sometimes try role playing, well more me (she hates acting ) and that was helpful , even sick stuff where she pretends she's sleeping and I sneak in and very slowly pull away the bed sheet firstly exposing her breasts and well yeah I'm sure you can guess the rest but even that kinda of playful stuff has stopped. I'm not here to complain , just throwing it out into the world letting people know that this kinda shit happens , it's not planned and nor is it welcomed it's just how it is :(
July 1, 2015 - 6:32amThis Comment
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