I am not dating but friendly with a guy who is 40, super athletic professionally (super hot), never been married, nice guy. I picked him and initiated conversation which led to more. He's a person who never gives a straight answer but more diplomatic so you never know what he is thinking. We kissed and had a 20 second of sex once. He is definitely not good at handling woman and start intimacy. We have discussed that neither of us want a relationship but at least i want to have sex with him but he is so hard to get through. We are super flirty over the phone but when I am with him, looks like he is afraid to get to it. Question: how straight forward can you be with a man? Is it taken clingy if I ask him about this? We live in different cities and I only see him every now and then, so I honestly do not even understand why would he not want to just do it whenever possible?
He has no other woman in his life and otherwise well equipped to perform. In texts he is brave to say he wants to do this and that, but nothing when I am standing in front of him and wanting to rip his clothes off. I care for this man so much but starting to give up on him as I have not found the way to be friends with benefits. I have my own insecurities as he is super toned but I am not as much. Maybe he does not want this whole thing but too nice to say it? I really have no clue what is going on.
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I am not dating but friendly with a guy who is 40, super athletic professionally (super hot), never been married, nice guy. I picked him and initiated conversation which led to more. He's a person who never gives a straight answer but more diplomatic so you never know what he is thinking. We kissed and had a 20 second of sex once. He is definitely not good at handling woman and start intimacy. We have discussed that neither of us want a relationship but at least i want to have sex with him but he is so hard to get through. We are super flirty over the phone but when I am with him, looks like he is afraid to get to it. Question: how straight forward can you be with a man? Is it taken clingy if I ask him about this? We live in different cities and I only see him every now and then, so I honestly do not even understand why would he not want to just do it whenever possible?
September 3, 2017 - 3:30amHe has no other woman in his life and otherwise well equipped to perform. In texts he is brave to say he wants to do this and that, but nothing when I am standing in front of him and wanting to rip his clothes off. I care for this man so much but starting to give up on him as I have not found the way to be friends with benefits. I have my own insecurities as he is super toned but I am not as much. Maybe he does not want this whole thing but too nice to say it? I really have no clue what is going on.
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