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Sasha,

Welcome to EmpowHer! Thank you so much for writing, and for your question.

I am so impressed with your lifelong journey, especially with your ability to keep seeking better solutions for yourself when previous ones aren't working for whatever reason. Many of the things you have dealt with are enough to get some people incredibly stuck -- thyroid issues and depression, for instance -- and the struggle to find the right medicine or the right treatment can be demotivating and discouraging. You clearly have an ability to see through the fog, when it exists, to seek something better. I admire that so much.

In regards to the sexuality, first of all I want to ask whether you are sure that it is not caused by any of your medicines? You have dealt with many different medicines over the years and some of them definitely have an affect on the libido (especially anti-depressants).

For others who are reading this, primary anorgasmia means that a person has never had an orgasm at all. Secondary anorgasmia means that at one point you were able to, but you aren't able to now.

Sasha, are you able to reach orgasm through masturbation? You mention that you suffer from this "w/partner," but I want to be sure. When you were able to orgasm in the past, was it with your partners?

Please let us know a little more so we can be truly helpful. In the meantime, we do have some information on the site that might give you a start:

https://www.empowher.com/media/reference/treating-sexual-problems
https://www.empowher.com/media/video/v-ideo-when-sex-isnt-good-what-sexual-health-information-can-i-find-your-book-sue-goldst

October 26, 2009 - 9:26am

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