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I agree that we probably aren't a good match. I should have realized this before we got together. I just wish I didn't feel the way I did and that I didn't get so familiar with this life. It's very difficult to leave. As far as children are concerned, I have absolutely no intention of having children with him. Both our mood swings would not make it a healthy environment for children. Besides that, he already has 2 children from a previous marriage... one that he was completely miserable in. He admitted to doing everything he could to get rid of his first wife except dump her. He was too lazy to break up with her, so he figured if he was really mean to her, she would leave, but she didn't. Eventually her friends practically forced her to leave. I admit I don't want to end up like that, but aside from the sex deprivation, he's anything but mean or unfair to me. He includes me in everything he does. He doesn't make plans with friends without assuming I'm coming with. He isn't abusive. The sex situation is the only problem. Without sex, it's as if we're living as really good friends. A relationship without sex is a very depressing one, especially considering how attracted I am to him and I couldn't fathom the idea of being alone right now. That's why I feel so torn about what to do. It's so hard to have the person you want right in front of you, but they won't let you have them. I know it's not normal. I've tried for so long and I just can't seem to get my head straight about it.