I'm so sorry. I have been where you are, and I know just how you feel. It's very difficult.
My advice? Take December off from trying. I know you can't put it out of your mind entirely, but it's a month filled with holiday errands and extra pressures and budget craziness, and that stress doesn't help at all when you're trying to conceive. Taking some of the stress off of yourself may help you a bit. And while I know that each month brings new hope and new chances to try, I also know the downside of the rollercoaster. Maybe you can give yourself a break from it during the holidays?
Best of luck to you. May your New Year bring that hoped-for babe.
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KristenG,
I'm so sorry. I have been where you are, and I know just how you feel. It's very difficult.
My advice? Take December off from trying. I know you can't put it out of your mind entirely, but it's a month filled with holiday errands and extra pressures and budget craziness, and that stress doesn't help at all when you're trying to conceive. Taking some of the stress off of yourself may help you a bit. And while I know that each month brings new hope and new chances to try, I also know the downside of the rollercoaster. Maybe you can give yourself a break from it during the holidays?
Best of luck to you. May your New Year bring that hoped-for babe.
November 24, 2009 - 9:52amThis Comment
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