In addition to echoing Susan's great advice, I would just ask you to ask yourself, what are you most afraid of here?
It's clear that you have good friends, a great body and a solid relationship. Is she a threat to any of those?
Sometimes, there is something about the people who most annoy us that reminds us of something in ourselves that we don't like. It's hard to see sometimes, but it can be there. Could that be the case here?
How is the state of your relationship otherwise? Are you moving toward marriage? Is that something that either or both of you want?
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Fitgirl,
In addition to echoing Susan's great advice, I would just ask you to ask yourself, what are you most afraid of here?
It's clear that you have good friends, a great body and a solid relationship. Is she a threat to any of those?
Sometimes, there is something about the people who most annoy us that reminds us of something in ourselves that we don't like. It's hard to see sometimes, but it can be there. Could that be the case here?
How is the state of your relationship otherwise? Are you moving toward marriage? Is that something that either or both of you want?
November 26, 2009 - 9:43amThis Comment
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