My bf and I have been together over 2 1/2 years. We just moved in together and we don't have sex regularly. It's been two months of us living together and we probably have had sex 4 times? Today I didn't work so I spent they day cleaning the place and even started making his favorite dinner. He calls me up saying he'll be late because he has a flat tire ( which is all true and he recieved a rental car) so to try and lighten his frustrations I sent him a few x rated photos to show him what will be waiting for him when he comes home.
Nope nothing happend. We had dinner and he immediately puts his headphones in and records his music. So I clean up and watch some tv. I put on a little sexy outfit and kept my robe over it (which I don't wear often so it should have been a red flag) but still nothing. He gets done with his music and says he's tired and heads to bed. I join and he says good night and passes out.
I feel as if I'm not turning him on or satisfying him. I know he jacks off when I work late nights at work.. But yet when I'm home I get nothing but a kiss. If I ever even ask to make out (which I shouldn't even have to ask) he just tells me I'm weird or will just say no. There is no passion in our relationship. When we do have sex , I'm the one who does everything while he lays there and takes it. I don't mind, but he needs to take control.
Maybe tomorrow when he wakes up for work, he'll see what I was wearing to bed for him and realize I wanted to be intimate. But for now all I can do is shake my head. I shouldn't have to make an appointment to have sex with him. I thought if we lived in our own place we would have sex more often. Guess I was wrong.
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My bf and I have been together over 2 1/2 years. We just moved in together and we don't have sex regularly. It's been two months of us living together and we probably have had sex 4 times? Today I didn't work so I spent they day cleaning the place and even started making his favorite dinner. He calls me up saying he'll be late because he has a flat tire ( which is all true and he recieved a rental car) so to try and lighten his frustrations I sent him a few x rated photos to show him what will be waiting for him when he comes home.
September 5, 2014 - 9:31pmNope nothing happend. We had dinner and he immediately puts his headphones in and records his music. So I clean up and watch some tv. I put on a little sexy outfit and kept my robe over it (which I don't wear often so it should have been a red flag) but still nothing. He gets done with his music and says he's tired and heads to bed. I join and he says good night and passes out.
I feel as if I'm not turning him on or satisfying him. I know he jacks off when I work late nights at work.. But yet when I'm home I get nothing but a kiss. If I ever even ask to make out (which I shouldn't even have to ask) he just tells me I'm weird or will just say no. There is no passion in our relationship. When we do have sex , I'm the one who does everything while he lays there and takes it. I don't mind, but he needs to take control.
Maybe tomorrow when he wakes up for work, he'll see what I was wearing to bed for him and realize I wanted to be intimate. But for now all I can do is shake my head. I shouldn't have to make an appointment to have sex with him. I thought if we lived in our own place we would have sex more often. Guess I was wrong.
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