My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly six months... He's the only boyfriend with whom I've fought over not having enough sex. Around the first 2 months I noticed that he won't make any move; he just goes to sleep and that's it, or sometimes he would just touch me and provoke me and then go to sleep right away. He has also never liked to perform oral sex on me. I have addressed this to him and he says that he's not very sexual, that he has never liked the taste of the vagina, and that he's exhausted from work. Now at five months he keeps saying the same things, but it's contradictory with what he told me when I met him, he said that he loves sex and he needs it and that's why he used to engage in casual sex even to the point of hanging two sex partners on the same week period (without them knowing it). And now he just doesn't want to have sex with me, everytime we do it is basically because I've begged for it, and sometimes he's so cruel as to turn me on and then leave me like that and he goes to sleep. Now I feel hurt and unwanted and I keep comparing myself with those girls he used to have sex with because they did turn him on. And his reply was that I'm always complaining. I feel guilty for complaining for something I need. Help please.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly six months... He's the only boyfriend with whom I've fought over not having enough sex. Around the first 2 months I noticed that he won't make any move; he just goes to sleep and that's it, or sometimes he would just touch me and provoke me and then go to sleep right away. He has also never liked to perform oral sex on me. I have addressed this to him and he says that he's not very sexual, that he has never liked the taste of the vagina, and that he's exhausted from work. Now at five months he keeps saying the same things, but it's contradictory with what he told me when I met him, he said that he loves sex and he needs it and that's why he used to engage in casual sex even to the point of hanging two sex partners on the same week period (without them knowing it). And now he just doesn't want to have sex with me, everytime we do it is basically because I've begged for it, and sometimes he's so cruel as to turn me on and then leave me like that and he goes to sleep. Now I feel hurt and unwanted and I keep comparing myself with those girls he used to have sex with because they did turn him on. And his reply was that I'm always complaining. I feel guilty for complaining for something I need. Help please.
November 21, 2014 - 11:19amThis Comment
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